Dating etiquette, handling love triangles, and strategies for meeting a better partner

**21.** **What etiquette should be observed in a romantic relationship?**

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When young men and women are dating, they should pay attention to the following etiquette:

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> (1) When walking on the street, it is acceptable for two people to link arms and hold hands, but it is inappropriate to put arms around each other's waists and backs.

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(2) Kissing should only be done in a place where there are only the two of you.

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(3) In public places such as parks, dance floors, beaches, and cinemas, pouncing...

Making bold and intimate gestures towards someone can make others feel uncomfortable.

> I believe you are all ill-mannered and therefore taboo.

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(4) When the man and woman are deeply in love, they should carefully and calmly control themselves.

Control your desires, don't indulge in fleeting pleasures, don't push your luck, and don't do immoral things.

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(5) Once the romantic relationship is established, the final step is to introduce your friends to your parents. Before the introduction, you should...

Briefly introduce the other person to your parents so that it will be easier to talk when you meet.

When meeting your parents, be natural and poised. Before each date, [you should...].

You should inform your parents of your whereabouts and when you will return home, so as not to worry your family.

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(6) If the man wants to break up with the relationship because he is not satisfied with the other person, it is best to do so by phone, letter, etc.

The proposal should be made formally to avoid an awkward face-to-face situation. The woman proposed ending the relationship.

Afterwards, the man should not act on emotion, gossip behind the woman's back, or slander her image.

> It is impolite and immoral.

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22. What to do if you fall in love with two people at the same time?

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Love between the sexes is exclusive; it cannot be given to two people at the same time. For example...

Falling in love with two people at the same time will inevitably lead to psychological turmoil and cause difficulties.

Such a choice, this kind of love, will not bring happiness, nor can it succeed; it can only bring...

> It brings pain and trouble, so you should decide what to keep and make a choice as soon as possible.

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(1) You must establish the concept that love must be exclusive. You must be clear that...

> Only one, not two, can come to be your lover; this promotes this intentionally.

> Make yourself choose only one person to be your lover, and focus your attention and feelings on one person.

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(2) You must choose a lover through your actions. To love two people at the same time...

It must be that two people, each with their own unique strengths, impressed you with their individual talents. In this world...

It's impossible for two people to be exactly the same in every way, even twins.

People's personalities, temperaments, and upbringing will also differ. You need to calmly make a comparison, from...

> Analyze and compare the strengths and weaknesses of each person, and make a choice based on your own requirements.

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(3) Consult a close friend. If you are unsure, you can...

Seek advice from close friends and ask for their opinions. Just in case you still can't make a decision...

> It's possible to spend more time getting to know each other better before making a decision. But this kind of contact...

The contact time should not be too long, and it should never exceed the scope of a lesbian relationship; otherwise, it would be considered having two relationships at the same time.

It is immoral to be in a relationship with two people at the same time, and the consequences will not be good.

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23. What to do if you meet someone better than your lover?

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As the saying goes, "There are mountains beyond mountains, and people above people." In this vast world, amidst the sea of ​​humanity...

It's inevitable to encounter someone better than your partner in a relationship; the key is how you deal with it.

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Based on observations, the following reactions generally occur when encountering this situation:

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(1) Remain unmoved by newcomers. Regardless of their appearance, talent, job, status, or education.

Despite their superior backgrounds, family circumstances, etc., compared to a romantic partner, I remain unmoved and have no desire for anything more.

To truly love one's lover.

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(2) Be moved by the newcomer. Compare the newcomer's and the "old's" conditions in all aspects.

After comparing them, she felt that the new person was more to her liking, and that the new person was the one she had longed for before falling in love.

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(3) Falling in love at first sight and resolutely leaving one's lover to establish a romantic relationship with a new person.

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In principle, the first type should be the model. Because love is a sophisticated form of...

> Emotional exchange, and her goal is for the two to unite, going to the market to buy things.

> You can choose the best from the best, but love requires, after choosing the right person, to love them wholeheartedly, without...

> It can change objects like a revolving lantern; moreover, as mentioned before, there are people above people, which is more...

A lover might meet someone else they prefer someday; they can't just keep seeing the same person all the time.

Let's eliminate one at a time. For the second and third scenarios, if it's due to multiple...

The reason might be due to poor consideration, a lack of satisfaction with one's partner, or a serious review of the past.

Make new choices, but the methods must be appropriate.

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24. What to do if your girlfriend is hesitant about your relationship?

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In this situation, you must first figure out why your girlfriend is unhappy with your relationship.

If you're hesitant about a romantic relationship, once you find the reasons, you can address the root cause.

If your girlfriend is hesitant to commit to a relationship, it's likely due to one of the following reasons:

This was caused by the situation.

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(1) She loves you very much, but is afraid to because of pressure from her parents or other people around her.

> Be bold in your interactions. If this is the case, it's relatively easy to handle; you can talk to your girlfriend.

Explain the principles of autonomy in marriage and freedom in love to strengthen her resolve, and then you two...

Go and talk to her parents, and touch their hearts with your sincere love.

They will be understanding. Once your parents agree, your relationship will be clear.

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(2) Your girlfriend doesn't have a comprehensive and thorough understanding of you. If it belongs to...

In this situation, you shouldn't be troubled by it; instead, you should find a way to handle it.

The cautious girl was pleased because she took love seriously.

In this situation, you should create conditions for the other party to understand you more clearly, and strive to...

The goal is to ensure your girlfriend fully understands and trusts you in the shortest possible time.

> Encourage her to make a decision to commit to your relationship as soon as possible.

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(3) Another situation is that some young women, in handling romantic relationships,

Widespread training, selective focus. If this is the case, you should explain the pros and cons to her as soon as possible.

Make a decision, and then determine your strategy based on her reaction.

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(4) Some young women also treat love as a game, toying with other people's feelings.

One day you're with me, the next you're in someone else's arms; your relationship is ambiguous, neither close nor distant.

> This leaves you confused about what's true and what's false. It's best to avoid associating with someone like that, lest...

> I deeply regret it.